Isn't it funny when people say "Don't do that. Stop that. It's bad for you." when they discover that you intentionally purge, self-harm, or whatnot. It's like, wow. I didn't know that. Thank you. You have cured me forever.
Instead, why don't they say, "If ever you have problems, you can always talk to me. I can't really say I understand everything you're going through and that I agree with what you do to yourself because I really don't but know that I am always here for you. That's what being friends are for, right? We're gonna get through this together."
It's more comforting and it cheers us troubled ones up. Even for just the tiniest bit. Because it lets us know that someone actually cares. Because there have been one too many circumstances where people just brush it off and act like it's nothing and that is just a slap in the face.
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