Are you tall?
I have been watching videos and reading posts all day of people who talk about their height. I guess this post will now officially become one of those.
Now let me just make this clear. When I say, tall, I don't mean 5'7".
I mean:
People like myself would fall into that category.
To start off, I'd begin this discussion by stating some pro's of being a tall woman.
1) You can reach things easily...whether it's under or over something. You're limbs, woman. USE IT.
2) It's relatively easy to hide your weight/fats. There are A LOT of places in your body that it distributes to.
3) You're not part of the crowd. You're above it. You effortlessly stand out. You're unique.
4) You have more job opportunities. There are occupations that cater specifically to your height. Like modeling and some sports. HECK, you can even get offered scholarships by just being in that height.
5) You're naturally perceived to be more attractive. Because. Society. That's why.
And now, for the awaited part. The negative aspect of being tall.
1) First and foremost is the most obvious. Hitting your head twice as much. You're practically used to the pain by now. Might as well call it an iron skull.
2) You cannot fit into tiny spaces. The seats in public transportation, the backseat of the car, you name it. And in a situation wherein you just HAVE to, you create a brand new yoga move just to fit in that tiny little space. Oh, and did I mention that you have to hold that position for the rest of the trip? Most people wouldn't understand the pain that can cause.
3) Clothing. Probably 99% of stores don't have your size. Whether it be a dress, a shirt, some pants, and of course shoes. While some people consider the item a dress, you see it as a shirt. Or if not, it barely covers you're bottom so you're not gonna buy it anyway. Pants are the absolute worst. You find one that fits? Too short. You find one that's long enough? Too loose. Face it. You're never gonna win. Shorts are easier to find. HOWEVER, people are going to judge you for wearing shorts. Why? Because there's always gonna be too much leg exposure. NO PEOPLE. My shorts aren't that short. My legs are just that long. Shoes. You might get a better chance at finding shoes your size if you live in western countries but for those who live in Asia, it is the worst. Absolutely nothing comes after a size 9...which was probably you're shoe size when you were like 11 years old or something. Nevertheless, shoes are gonna be hard to find either way. Oh, I forgot one last thing. People are also gonna judge you if ever they see you in heels because you're apparently TOO TALL.
4) Bullying. Or name calling. Whatever. People are ALWAYS going to make remarks about your height no matter what. They WILL point it out. "YOU'RE TALL." You think to yourself, "Oh, really? I didn't notice that until now that you pointed it out." A lot of people will make fun of your height, even. Because you're different. That's how society works. Deal with it.
ALSO PLEASE NOTE DOWN THE FOLLOWING:
1) Do NOT ask about their height. Or ask for body measurements. They WILL get pissed off. Even if they act cool about it. Some tall people are actually insecure about this. So DON'T. JUST. DON'T,
2) Do NOT ask to compare heights. These are people. Not a measuring stick.
3) Do NOT ask if they play basketball/volleyball/track. Most likely, they don't. Not every tall person is interested in sports.
^ If you avoid doing what was stated above, you'd be in the friend list of a tall person in no time.
SO THAT'S IT. I'm done with this post.
